Kamasutra advent calendar for adults: Try new sexual positions: 25 Naughty days for new sensations in bed

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The phrase “scheduled sex” evokes dread for most couples. We have the idea that sex is always supposed to be spontaneous, so making the decision to schedule sex feels like an admission that your sex life is officially dead. But scheduled sex actually be way more fun than you think. Here’s how. Get on Board With Scheduled Sex Bring your fantasy to life in this hotter-than-hot standing move. If the receiving partner is the one wearing the heels, they’ll be at the exact right height for deep penetration when they lean over a bed or table.

Have your partner enter you from behind while you grab your ankles or brace your hands against the floor to help keep you stable. This position is great for easy, deep penetration and fast, intense thrusting, but is a little less intimate since your faces are so far away from each other. You can also play with gamification. Make an agreement with your partner that if you guys follow through on all of your scheduled dates for a month, you’ll treat yourselves to a nice dinner out. Try Different Activities From the bedroom to the beach, the reverse cowgirl position translates perfectly. It’s another one that protects the receiving partner from getting sand all over, while giving the penetrating partner the hottest view from behind. To do dancer, stand up facing one another. Have your partner grab one of your legs and wrap it around their torso. “This position is great for intimacy and closeness,” says couples therapist Adrienne Alden. “It allows for the shaft of the penis to rub up against the clitoris.” (Sex ed 101 — that’s a good thing.)Another way to get more comfortable about scheduling sex is to be more active about scheduling non-sexual time with your partner. Schedule date nights out, new activities, or just quality alone time together. Doing so really helps drive home the message that you’re scheduling time with your partner because you value them, not because they’re another item on your to-do list. Thank Each Other The Drop Box is consideredd one of the best positions for the female orgasm (and your partner will probably enjoy it too). The receiving partner has the option of either wrapping their legs around the penetrating partner, resting their legs on their shoulders, or having them hold their legs in the air — they’re all hot, trust us. If a day is missed, an extra day will be added to the challenge increasing the challenge length from 30, 31, 32, and so on. The challenge will not exceed 40 days. Mixing things up keeps “me time” interesting. For Opening Up, sit on a chair with your ankles wound around the legs, opening up your legs and slipping a hand in between. Bracing your legs against the chair gives you plenty of leverage and support as you experience some new, spine-tingling sensations. You may want to talk about scheduling right after you’ve just had sex. That’s a perfect time to plan, since you’re riding the high of your most recent rendezvous. Agree to a Bare Minimum

Here you go: an easy way to get it on on the beach without getting sand in those crevices. Simply lay out your towel, slip the relevant parts out of your swimsuits, and have some nice sweaty fun.Day 8—Road trip. Park, make out and have car sex. Option: go home for sex afterwards. Don’t break the law. Maybe just do it in the car in the garage. Getting the receiving partner on top is a great way to give them a boost of control (and to give the penetrating partner a hell of a view). In the Seated Scissors position, the partner recieving can straddle the penetrating partner with one leg between theirs and one outside their hip, allowing some extra angles and creative ranges of motion while also giving some additional grinding options for clitoral stimulation. Day 15—Each partner brings self to an orgasm seated in front of partner on bed. Same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Observe and learn.

However, there are some fun ways to slightly deviate from the norm and experiment with basic sex positions.For people with a vulva, the best-feeling positions are often the ones that stimulate your clitoris: where you’re on top, or doing reverse cowgirl, etc. These typically lead to clitoral orgasm, which is the most common type and typically the easiest to access. But that’s not the only way to come , just so you know. Deep penetration can in some cases stimulate you in other places, leading to other kinds of orgasms — G-spot or cervical, for instance. And you’re not going to get to those deeper orgasms if you keep taking the shortcut and using the same position to get off (not that we blame you).

Yab-Yum With a Twist

Any pregnant woman will appreciate the Rear-Entry Side Position, a nice relaxing way to have a roll in the hay. It’s also just one of the snuggliest positions around for all kinds of bodies — and excellent for morning sex. Have the penetrating partner enter from behind and snuggle up close with your knees touching, with your hands free to hold one another or play with other erogenous areas along the way. Pro tip: “Differences of height with partners can be helped by placing one partner lying on a pillow on their side,” says certified sex therapist Marissa Nelson. “It will give the receiving partner an extra boost so the penetrating partner can enter at a better angle, making it more pleasurable for both.”